Showing posts with label Selfishness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Selfishness. Show all posts

Friday, 30 October 2015

How to manage cunning and shrewd people?

Once upon a time there was a cunning fox that always looked for ways to cheat the fellow animals of the forest. One day the fox saw some cocks sitting on a tree and she thought of a trick.


She said, “Look friends, few days ago some senior animals of this forest held a meeting and decided that none of us would harm any fellow inhabitant. Therefore, you don’t need to be afraid of me anymore. Why don’t you come down and enjoy these grapes with me?” The cocks were wise and understood the fox’s intentions. As a result, they kept themselves perched on the highest branch of the tree. In the meantime 2 bloodhounds came running towards the tree and surprised the fox. The fox panicked on seeing the bloodhounds and started running for her life. It was the turn of the cocks now to poke the fox, they said, “Why are you running now?” The fox replied, “It might be possible that these bloodhounds are not aware of the recent resolution.”

Moral of the story

It is always advisable to maintain a distance from the cunning and shrewd people and not let your wisdom get dented by their malicious manipulations.

Tuesday, 27 October 2015

Be kind and share with Everyone

After traveling through Middle East and many other countries, the #GuruNanak Ji reached a place called #HassanAbdal. It is about fifty kilometers from Rawalpindi in Pakistan. Guru Nanak Ji stayed at Hassan Abdal near the foothills. People came to know about Guru Ji and began to gather around him. Guru Nanak Ji talked to them about God. He told them the greatness of God and His creation. Numerous people began to gather around him every day.



A Priest used to live on the top of a hill. His name was Bawa Wali Qandhari. His house was near a spring of fresh water. The water flowed down to the town from spring on top of the hill near Wali's house. The spring was the only source of water for the town. People relied on the spring to carry their basic needs.

Wali Qandhari was an arrogant person. When he saw people gathering around Guru Nanak instead of his place, he became very jealous and angry. He stopped the spring water from flowing down to the town. The people became frustrated. How could they and their cattle live without water? A group of them went to Bawa Wali Qandhari and begged him to let the water flow down as before. Bawa Wali Qandhari in full anger said, "Go to your Guru, the one you visit everyday and ask for water from him." The poeple went to the Guru and told him the whole story. Guru Ji said, “Don't lose your heart, trust in God. God will not let you die of thirst”. Guru Ji then asked Bhai Mardana to go and appeal to Bawa Wali Qandhari and request him to let the water flow down to the town. When Bhai Mardana went to the top of the hill, Bawa Wali Qandhari shouted angrily, “Go back to your Guru and ask him to give water to the people.”

Bhai Mardana returned to the Guru and narrated what Bawa Wali Qandhari said to him. The Guru sent him once again but Mardana came back with the same story. People got more and more frustrated each second. The Guru said, “Don't lose your heart. God is great and merciful. God can make springs flow from whereever He wishes. Let us all pray to Him.” They all prayed. Then Guru Nanak Dev Ji lifted a stone. At once, a stream of fresh water began to flow from the place Guru lifted the stone.

At the same time, Bawa Wali Qanhari's spring dried up. He was filled with anger and pushed a large rock from the top of the hill towards the Guru. The rock came rolling down towards the Guru. Bawa Wali Qanhari thought that the rock would crush Guru Ji to death but the Guru quietly raised his hand and the rock stopped at the instant it struck Guru’s hand. Guru ji’s hand was imprinted on the rock. Bawa Wali Qundhari's pride was broken. He came down and fell at the Guru's feet.

The Guru said, “Rise my friend. Live as devotees of God should live. Be kind and share with everyone” The rock still exists. There is a beautiful Gurdwara at that place called the Panja Sahib.

Monday, 19 October 2015

Be a True Follower

Once there was a devotee of God who had a longing to meet God. He did not know punjabi language so he and could not understand the holy book of sikhs ,Guru Granth Sahib Ji. He heard of a priest who translates Guru Granth Sahib Ji and narrates the message of the Satguru in English. He went to the priest and joined his congregation. The priest started describing the greatness and the teachings of Guru Nanak Dev Ji. He conveyed the message of Guru Ji. As Guru instructed he said, God can only be seen by meditating on Him and remembering Him for every moment. Just as you would remember someone you love and he/she is in your mind all the time, remember God and you shall meet Him. The priest was doing holy work but he was only doing it for money. As people would leave, they would present him with some money for his time and that is what priest wanted. The priest himself would not worship God and was concentrating on making as much money as he could.

The devotee of God became a regular follower of the priest. He would come to the priest’s congregation everyday, learn about Guru’s message and while leaving, he would leave some money for the priest. However, in order to travel to the priest’s congregation, the devotee had to cross a river. There was no bridge nearby, so he had to walk 1 mile south to get to the bridge and come back north for about 1 mile. This would take him a lot of time. The devotee decided to ask for a solution from the priest. When he asked, the priest first asked for his fee. The devote paid him and the priest told him that if he worships God from deep within his heart and has trust in Him, God will make him able to walk on water and he will no longer has to walk 2 miles to cross the bridge.

The devotee was impressed. He had a great trust in God and started worshipping him even more than he used to. He would wake up at 3AM in the morning, take a bath and mediate on God. He would also meditate on him while running errands and working. He recited the Name of God for each moment he could.

A month passed and the devotee was walking along the bank of the river and he was getting late. He thought if be walked a mile to the bridge and then a mile back, he would miss the most of the day’s sermon. So he decided to go through the river. As he stepped in the water, he did not become wet and neither did his foot sink in the water. He was actually walking on water. He was filled with joy and thanked God. He crossed the river by walking on the water and reached the congregation of the priest.

After that day, he never crossed the bridge; he would walk on the water to go to the priest's congregation. One day, the devotee invited the priest to his house for a meal to thank him for his guidance. The priest accepted his invitation and headed along with him to his house. As they approached the river, the priest wanted to cross the river from the bridge. The devotee replied that he doesn’t cross the bridge anymore and goes through the river. The priest asked that why does he go through the river, doesn’t he get wet? The devotee replied that he never gets wet, he walks on water. The priest was astonished. The priest asked the devotee to cross the river first.



The devotee crossed the river by walking on water. The priest had never seen anything like this before. He was wonderstruck and filled with astonishment. When the devotee reached the other side, he asked the priest to cross the river. Having not meditated on God, priest hesitated but to preserve his honor he thought to give it a try. As he stepped in the water, he drowned. The devotee had to pull the priest out of the river.
 
Moral : Hypocrites talk about God and teachings of God but they seldom follow the teachings themselves. God is always with the true followers , even if the followers obtains their knowledge about God from a hypocrite.

Friday, 2 October 2015

Dream of an Indian Monk

एक महात्मा कहीं जा रहे थे। रास्ते में वो आराम करने के लिये रुके। एक पेड के नीचे लेट कर सो गये नींद में उन्होंने एक स्वप्न देखा कि... “वे रास्ते में जा रहे हैं और उन्हें एक सौदागर मिला, जो पांच गधों पर बड़ी- बड़ी गठरियां लादे हुए जा रहा था। गठरियां बहुत भारी थीं, जिसे गधे बड़ी मुश्किल से ढो पा रहे थे।

फकीर ने सौदागर से प्रश्न किया- “इन गठरियों में तुमने ऐसी कौन-सी चीजें रखी हैं, जिन्हें ये बेचारे गधे ढो नहीं पा रहे हैं?” सौदागर ने जवाब दिया- “इनमें इंसान के इस्तेमाल की चीजें भरी हैं। उन्हें बेचने मैं बाजार जा रहा हूं।“ फकीर ने पूछा- “अच्छा! कौन-कौन सी चीजें हैं, जरा मैं भी तो जानूं!”

सौदागर ने कहा- “यह जो पहला गधा आप देख रहे हैं इस पर अत्याचार की गठरी लदी है।“ फकीर ने पूछा-
“भला अत्याचार कौन खरीदेगा?” सौदागर ने कहा- “इसके खरीदार हैं राजा- महाराजा और सत्ताधारी लोग। काफी ऊंची दर पर बिक्री होती है इसकी।“

फकीर ने पूछा- “इस दूसरी गठरी में क्या है?” सौदागर बोला- “यह गठरी अहंकार से लबालब भरी है और इसके खरीदार हैं पंडित और विद्वान।

तीसरे गधे पर ईर्ष्या की गठरी लदी है और इसके ग्राहक हैं वे धनवान लोग, जो एक दूसरे की प्रगति को बर्दाश्त नहीं कर पाते। इसे खरीदने के लिए तो लोगों का तांता लगा रहता है।“

फकीर ने पूछा- “अच्छा! चौथी गठरी में क्या है भाई?” सौदागर ने कहा- “इसमें बेईमानी भरी है और इसके ग्राहक हैं वे कारोबारी, जो बाजार में धोखे से की गई बिक्री से काफी फायदा उठाते हैं। इसलिए बाजार में इसके भी खरीदार तैयार खड़े हैं।“

फकीर ने पूछा- “अंतिम गधे पर क्या लदा है?” सौदागर ने जवाब दिया- “इस गधे पर छल-कपट से भरी गठरी रखी है और इसकी मांग उन औरतों में बहुत ज्यादा है जिनके पास घर में कोई काम-धंधा नहीं हैं और जो छल-कपट का सहारा लेकर दूसरों की लकीर छोटी कर अपनी लकीर बड़ी करने की कोशिश करती रहती हैं। वे ही इसकी खरीदार हैं।“

तभी महात्मा की नींद खुल गई। इस सपने में उनके कई प्रश्नों का उत्तर उन्हें मिल गया। सही अर्थों में कहें तो वह सौदागर स्वयं शैतान था जो संसार में बुराइयाँ फैला रहा था। और उसके शिकार कमजोर मानसिकता के स्वार्थी लोग बनते हैं।

शैतान का शिकार बनने से बचने का एक ही उपाय है कि...ईश्वर पर सच्ची विश्वास रखते हुवे उन्हें याद करें ।अपने मन को ईश्वर का मंदिर बनाओ जिसमे ईश्वर की याद हमेशा हो।



कोई भी कार्य करते समय ये जरूर याद रखना की ईश्वर हमे देख रहा है कोई भी ऐसा गलत कार्य न हो जिससे ईश्वर का और आपका नाम खराब हो जैसे बच्चे कुछ गलत करते है तो बच्चे के साथ पिता की भी बदनामी होती हैं । ईश्वर हमेशा देखते की किसने अपने किन अवगुणों का त्याग कर किन गुणोंका अपने जीवन में धारण किया और उसके रचे संसार को कितना सजाया-संवारा।